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If someone talk shit about you, it's your win.

It is an Adler psychology salon.


In this article, I will write about how to deal with negative ideas and bad habits that many people suffer from.


There are a lot of people who are concerned about other people's negative thoughts, and because of that their actions are restricted, there are so many people who are in a situation where they can not do what they want to do.


It's a shame that you can not do what you want to do as you care about the evaluations of others, and it will also lead you to live a life that others make good while you look at the complexion of others who are not your own life .


So how do you think this way?


If someone talks shit about me, it is my victory!


There are a wide variety of causes for negatives, but the negatives you get when you are moving forward are most often mere envy or envy.


Acupuncture and moxibustion are feelings that are only remembered by a person who is equal to or superior to you, and being insulted does not mean that you are overlooked.


The negatives and bad mouths that attack you at this time represent that you are a worthwhile human being who will be at the forefront of those around you.


In other words, it is proof that you are better than intruders and bad voices.


People who stalk people's way of life, etc., always feel inferiority and fall into inferiority complex.


There is no need to be swayed by such inferiority in others.


If you are bothered or offended by a negative or bad mouth, you have no meaning.

 

Let's take the distance as much as possible with those who give such negative words.


It is also good to talk directly with me not to say bad words.

 

There is no point in having relationships with people who say bad things about you or hamper your life.


Besides, listening to only bad words will adversely affect your subconsciousness unconsciously, and will adversely affect the overall performance of you.


What you think of you is the task of others, not your task.


If you have nothing to back off, pursue your own purpose.


In a short life, not doing what you want to do right away will be a postponement of your life.


Don't let the rest of your important life get in the way of negatives and negatives by those who are plagued by inferior complexes.


Whatever you say, whatever you do, there is always Anti.


Other people can not know all of you, and in the first place, humans only know the range that they know.

 

No matter how much logical explanation is given, it is necessary to include “objectivity that can be understood by anyone” in the logical explanation. There is a limit to


At the end of the list, if the other person has become a little emotional, it may be the purpose of "I hate you" or "I want to beat you", and the other person's story loses any credibility You


Let's ignore such easy-to-shift, groundless talk of others.


It is an unexpected joy if this article comes as a chance that one or more people can defeat the negative or the bad mouth.